Where to make guy friends
A while back I had posted this video. Since that article went live I’ve had a few people arrive at the site searching on the question “How can guys make guy friends?”
The important thing to remember is that your goal should not be to impress all guys. Your goal in life should be to passionately define yourself and then let people come along for the ride. Associate with those who contribute to your betterment.
So the first step in making guy friends is to ask yourself: what do you value in life? If you can’t answer that question, then you’re going to have trouble making guy friends or finding women. Being passionate about life and having a core set of values that direct your behavior are critical.
Once you’ve identified the kind of man you want to be, you start being that man and you should naturally find guy friends.
The key is to get out there and start mingling and find like-minded people.
Do you enjoy hanging out with guys who hang out at bars? Hang out at bars.
Do you enjoy playing video games with other guys? Do it in moderation, but it’s no alternative for real male bonding, so find something else.
Are you into sports? Find local intramural sports groups like church softball or community center basketball.
Are you into yoga? Go to yoga lcass, but expect to find more girls than guys (not a bad thing!)
Are you into MMA? Train at the local MMA gym and get to know the guys there.
Are you into music? Hang out at the local record store if it still exists in your area.
Are you into strength training? Go to the gym.
Are you into philosophy? Track down the nearest college philosophy club.
Are you into outdoor sports? Join the local hunting club.
etc.
The important thing is that each of these places is going to have its own distinct culture and in order to fit in, you’re going to have to adopt that culture. Does that fit with your vision of life? The man you want to become? You’ll have to answer that question.
