Sexy Women Let Men Be Men
While guys are primarily attracted to physical beauty, there are some strong psychological factors involved in male to female attraction. Guys are almost universally attracted to women who are eager to let men be men. In other words, most men are attracted to women who want a strong man. A man who makes them feel a certain way. Not a kitchen bitch to nag and give instructions too.
Personally, I’m attracted to two types of women. The first type is completely and utterly submissive. The second type challenges and teases you to give you opportunities to display your dominance over her.
There’s a third type of woman I find it very difficult to be attracted to: women who want to be men. The modern feminist who wants to dictate the rules and control the relationship and ultimately be dominant over the man. I could never be in a relationship with a man. Likewise, I could never be in a relationship with a woman who psychologically projects as a man.
You can see examples of the two types of women I’m attracted to in two popular singers. Lana Del Rey and Rihanna. Del Rey is old school sexy. She wants to be submissive to the right guy. She wants to exist for the sake of her guy. She wants her modus operandi to be the man in her life. She wants to be sexy for her man and I’d even go further and say that she wants to live for him too. But in order to do this, she needs to admire him.
You can hear it in her voice and read it in her lyrics.
“Light of his life, fire of his loins. Keep me forever, tell me you own me.”
“It’s you, it’s you, it’s all for you. Everything I do”
“I will love you till the end of time. I would wait a million years. Promise you’ll remember that you’re mine.”
Unless I’m missing some important information, her album reads clear: Lana Del Rey wants to be owned.
So Lana Del Rey falls more on the ultra-submissive side which I find very attractive. There’s another sexy though. The “I know I’m hot and I’m going to challenge you for access” kind of sexy. And this is where Rihanna comes onto the scene. Of all modern female celebrities alive, I find that Rihanna is able to be a strong, sexually provocative woman while still maintaining the proper frame for male-female relationships: she’s happy to reward the men in her life, and ultimately she wants to submit to them, but in a different sort of way… she appreciates the excitement and challenge of push-pull and wants a man who has the endurance to participate in that game with her and still come out on top.
People wonder why she hasn’t sworn off Chris Brown. It’s pretty simple: Chris Brown makes Rihanna feel like a woman. And there are moments when he makes her feel like she’s the only girl in the world.
“Tonight I’m going to let you be the captain”
This whole song is about push-pull
She wants to feel like a woman
