Safety & Excitement
All women have two main things they are seeking in relationships to varying degrees. Safety and excitement. And the degree to which they will seek these two things depends on the woman and her environment/context.
When times are tough, safety matters more than anything else. Strong, firm, stability is the male virtue that satisfies the female desire to feel safe. When the economy is uncertain or when there is a war… any threat to safety, men who provide stable consistency will be in high demand.
Just like men, all women are thrill seekers given the right opportunities. That’s not to say that all women like to party. Or that all women like to skydive. It’s just that as human beings, when women don’t feel they are risking stability or safety, they will seek out new experiences. When the economy is rolling along, when we are in times of peace, women are going to be a lot more attracted to men who can give them a good time.
You can provide both. Give them safety by being strong and unphaseable. Give them excitement by planning new experiences to share together (paced out of course).